What makes you different?

C’mon, it’s an opportunity to break the rules, stand out and become ONE of a kind.

Yes, I was not at all happy.

So, keep on experimenting.

Why do some women alter their faces by so-called cosmetic surgeries (on their eyes, cheeks, lips, chin, jaw) that making them look like Donald Duck or puffy aliens, while for most men these unnatural facial changes are ridiculous or even disgusting?

What if he’d come outside?

Being different is being a mess, yet being okay with it.

Being different is being okay with failure, so you know what the dessert of a win tastes like.

Since the rise of feminism, the dating market has shifted to the disadvantage of men and that is causing this incel phenomenon. Why do women not understand how lonely the majority of men are?

Anxious to get a job, I chose to do what was socially recommended for me. So, I tried. Being a govt. servant. Failed. A Research Scholar. Didn’t make it. A Professor. Guess what?

I have always wanted to write things. Wrote poetry during my grad and reluctantly left it for preparation of a govt. exam because who’s got extra time for it.

He would have experienced the miracle called light. Maybe he got better food to eat. Then he got wounded. Then in search of balm, he travaled to the wilderness and found a party of rats, eaten to its heart’s content and danced the night out.

Why does my best friend call me ugly and act like she’s joking, but today she looked at me and said “I wouldn’t lie to you”? What should I say back to her?

"Life is a journey, not a destination. Enjoy the ride." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tried everything. A well-paying corporate job, govt. exams. Nothing provided me with security. I didn’t have time to myself. Hustling was my name. Didn’t go to parties, travel or anything. Didn’t talk to friends.

Agree?

Why do we let ugly men exist?

Become different not according to the world, but according to what you like and what you don’t.

If you’ve read this far, let me tell you one more thing.

To take out these experiments, accept the asymmetry of your emotions, your eccentricities, aspirations and thoughts for what they actually are. Instead of filtering it through the social system, recognize the difference and apply it in your life.

Do you feel uncomfortable when you come across cross dressers?

Don’t choose to be an engineer just because it pays well.

Not because people show it off and you have to follow the lead.

Neither I’m Tesla, who got poor grades in school, nor I’ve grown to invent electric current that powers many electronic devices today. Nor I’m an entrepreneur who is the idea behind the Tesla cars.

Why do many men like women's breasts?

Indeed, a number of other factors contribute to your uniqueness, but that’s for you to introspect.

You know how all of this enlightenment came to me.

Everything has shaped me. Friends who gave me their pens and journals. Best friends I never made. Crush that made me write poems while he didn’t care. Romances I’ve missed. Opportunity to become an editor or a news correspondent I missed. I think all this has made me the writer I am.

The International Boxing Association said that Khelif and Lin competing in Paris Olympics were disqualified from the tournament for testing positive for XY chromosomes which give an unfair advantage in the women’s division. What do you think?

I experimented. A lot. And now I know I don't need more trials of this kind. I’m writing this today at just the right place from the comfort of my home while it rains outside. While a cold breeze rings music to my senses.

Without experiments, is life worth it.

Experiments: My life has been a group of experiments that failed to take off until I resorted to writing.

My waist finally looks like how it did before I had kids but I didn’t lose weight. Why am I still 15 lbs from my starting weight?

“The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.” - Lao Tzu

Don’t go to the gym because it’s a fitness fad.

Even if that means disappointing your parents and teachers for some time, but believe you’ll eventually make them feel proud.

Why do narcissists keep calling on the phone after years of separation?

Until the day I choose to listen to myself. I let my subconscious go wherever it wanted me to go. It was not just in dreams I wanted to live, but in real life. Not allowing others to cloud my personality, my ability, my inclination towards philosophy, knack to motivate others, and my indifference towards others’ opinions.

P.S. What’s your idea of being different? Do you have a different point of view?

I am an ordinary human being with the same body structure as you who are reading, you and I have the same material of what our bodies and brains are made up of.

After 70 years of the crappiest computers ever made, why does IBM exist?

All of it would have been different, and this life would mean something, at least for him.

Experiences: What has happened to me? Have I led a normal life with two parents and two siblings? Yes. Breakups I’ve had. Friends I’ve made. School I have attended. Guides I’ve met. Places I’ve been.

Being different is being a weirdo. And being okay about it.

How do military families handle communication when a service member is injured overseas?

Do anything and everything because you like it. You love it. Do the things that make you go crazy. Things you’d barter your breath for. Things that make your life a rainbow.

Don’t get a partner because you’re jealous of your friends.

Take my word. You won’t regret it.

‘Gas station heroin’ is technically illegal and widely available. Here are the facts - WANE 15

I know being a writer is no different. But my journey is different. Its unique to me.

Can you make it?

So, what actually makes us all different?

Is BPD real or just an excuse?

What makes you YOU.

A govt. job could do it for me. Plus Money, plus security, plus prestige.

Long story short, here I am. Being a writer. Doing things I’d always love to do. Sharing my experiences of what I learnt.

Do older women know what they want?

I always yearned to go for government jobs because I had a few relatives already into it and doing well with money and security. And here is me, with an arts background, uncertain about what to choose.

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." - Oscar Wilde

Don’t drink because everybody does today.

My religion teacher said that there are no atheists because in order to reject God, you must first have a concept of God, and if you have a concept of God, you are not an atheist. In what way is this true, if at all? Why?

Otherwise, thank you for reading. It was fun writing to you all. Hope it helped you in more ways than one.

Not ignoring emotions because they can be destructive. Not underestimating your aspirations because society calls them second-rate.

Honestly, there’s nothing that makes ‘me’ different.

You can be fearful and still use it to tame your weaknesses and build your emotional strength.

Consider a rat who never came out of the hole fearing for his life. He stayed in the dark for years and died one day, unbeknownst.